THE QUIET DISAPPEARANCE OF COMMUNITY SPACES

In the 1990s and early 2000s, Starbucks positioned itself as the ultimate third place. A cozy coffee shop where you could work, read, and connect. Fast forward to today, and Starbucks has pivoted to drive-thrus and mobile orders. More than 70% of sales now happen through a window, not at a table.

The message is clear: lingering is no longer the goal.

This is not just about Starbucks—it’s a broader cultural shift. The places that once invited us to stay are now designed to move us along. Convenience has replaced connection. And as a result, third places are vanishing.

DIGITAL VS. HUMAN CONNECTION

We are more connected than ever—and yet, we’ve never been lonelier.

The U.S. Surgeon General has declared loneliness a public health crisis, warning that social isolation is as deadly as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. According to his 2023 advisory, the decline of face-to-face interactions is fueling an epidemic of disconnection, with profound consequences for mental and physical health—including increased risks of heart disease, dementia, anxiety, and depression.

Third places once acted as a buffer against this isolation. They were where we bumped into neighbors, struck up conversations with strangers, and felt part of something bigger than ourselves. But as these spaces vanish, loneliness deepens.

The pandemic only accelerated the shift. Remote work skyrocketed. In-person interactions plummeted. And the simple, organic moments—catching up with a friend at a coffee shop, lingering in a park just to enjoy the atmosphere—are fading.

Without third places, communities fracture. Well-being suffers. And our most fundamental need for human connection goes unmet.

THE CHALLENGE OF FINDING A TRUE THIRD PLACE

So where do you go when you want to catch up with a friend?

In many European cities, a café table is yours for the night. There’s no pressure to leave. Contrast that with the U.S., where waiters check in every 10 minutes, subtly nudging you to finish up. Bars are often too loud. Parks can feel neglected.

For many, the options are limited. In some cities, you may only have a few coffee shops within a 5-10 mile radius—noisy, crowded, and closing early. The reality? Most American cities lack true third places.

When third places don’t exist, people stay home. Social connections fade. Isolation increases.

LESSONS LEARNED FROM A MASTER IN PLACEMAKING

While many businesses move toward speed and efficiency, visionary developers like Rick Caruso are doubling down on the power of place.

Caruso’s shopping destinations, like The Grove in Los Angeles, aren’t just retail centers—they’re designed to feel alive. The secret?

1- Create a reason to stay. The Grove has live music, open-air promenades, and a pedestrian trolley. People don’t just go there to shop; they go because it feels good to be there.

2 - Prioritize connection. Wide walkways, central green spaces, and ample seating encourage people to linger. Unlike other malls that remove benches to discourage “loitering,” Caruso’s properties invite people to stay.

3 - Invest in experience. Thoughtful design, curated events, and a sense of place make these spaces a natural gathering point. The result? People don’t just visit; they return.

The takeaway: People want great places to gather. And when you build them well, they thrive.

NEIGHBORHOOD SPOTLIGHT

Some places and neighborhoods still prioritize third places—and it shows.

Take South Park in San Diego or Mueller in Austin, TX. These neighborhoods are designed for people, not just cars. Walkable streets, mom-and-pop shops, outdoor seating, and shaded communal spaces create a natural flow where community happens. Regular events keep these spaces vibrant, engaging, and alive year-round.

What makes them work? They aren’t just built for efficiency—they’re built for belonging.

HOW CITIES CAN RECLAIM THIRD PLACES

The decline of third places isn’t just a business problem—it’s a civic one.

Cities have prioritized parking lots over plazas, big-box retail over neighborhood hubs. The result? Strip malls and drive-thrus—but no places designed for people to simply be.

The good news? Fixing this doesn’t require billion-dollar projects—just smarter planning.

1 - Activate existing public spaces. A park without activity is just an empty field. A library without programming is just a building with books. Cities should focus on bringing life to what they already have.

2 - Support businesses that foster community. Coffee shops, bookstores, and coworking spaces serve as modern-day town squares. Cities can offer grants, relaxed zoning, and tax incentives to businesses that encourage people to stay, not just spend.

3 - Rethink zoning for walkability. Too many zoning codes separate commerce from community. Mixed-use areas, sidewalk cafés, and pedestrian-friendly streets create natural gathering places.

4 - Encourage adaptive reuse. Instead of requiring expensive new construction, cities can transform underused spaces—vacant storefronts into pop-up galleries, empty malls into mixed-use hubs, abandoned lots into vibrant parks.

5 - Ban hostile architecture. Cities should eliminate anti-homeless design—spiked benches, divided seats, and features that deter gathering. Public spaces should invite people in, not push them away.

THE FUTURE OF CITIES DEPENDS ON THIRD PLACES

At our core, we are social creatures. We thrive when we have places to connect.

When third places flourish, neighborhoods become stronger, businesses thrive, and people feel more fulfilled.

The solution isn’t complicated—but it does require action.

✔ Businesses incentivized to create environments where people are invited to stay, not just spend.

✔ Cities investing in plazas, parks, and cultural spaces as essential infrastructure.

✔ Communities working collectively to reclaim underutilized spaces and turn them into gathering places (public-private partnerships).

The places we gather define the way we live. If we lose third places, we lose more than coffee shops and parks—we lose the human moments that make life meaningful. This is not just about public spaces. It’s about how we choose to build our future. And the time to act is now.

We help businesses craft extraordinary, experience-driven destinations that leave a lasting impact—and we’d love to help you do the same.

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Let’s build something extraordinary—together.